It’s true: we all know someone, or we all know someone who knew someone, who knew…

Today, on International Overdose Awareness Day, I must admit I didn’t understand the dysfunctional drama played out in addiction and co-addiction.

For instance, are you aware that some addicts drink, use, or sadly overdose to fight off loneliness, self-hatred, and to forget a painful past?

Equally destructive is when co-addicts—enablers like me wear a mask of togetherness when we’d much rather isolate to avoid the shame and stigma of the family secret.

“Stigma kills faster than fentanyl. It keeps people from asking for help, from carrying naloxone, from walking into a clinic.” — Shilo Jama, Co-founder, Urban Survivors Union