NCAM-Day 29

Remember yesterday’s post? Well, I’m here to tell you after years of accepting blame, shame, and guilt the untrue negative message we tell ourselves won’t go away in one day. What will help us move forward is being involved in 12-Step support groups,...

Day 28 National Codependency Awareness Month

As we near the end of this year’s National Codependency Awareness Month, I know God has my back. No more guilt. No more blame. And no more shame. He is showing me how to believe in me. Now that’s the kind of Power only He can give. Yahoo! Thanks to my...

NCAM – Day 27

I cannot cure my own co-addiction, but I am determined to challenge my enabling behaviors. And that my friends, begins with Step One. I really do admit I am powerless over others. And when I don’t work my program-my life is unmanageable. Thanks to this new...

NCAM – Day 25 Listen Up!

Hearing what we want to hear instead of what is being said is another form of Denial. Some of us are so hungry for affection we hear what we want to hear. Amazingly, Bill, Dr. Bob, and the authors of the 12 Steps show us a way to work on this most human shortcoming....