Easy for You to Say – – –

– – – but oh, not so easy to do! DETACH WITH LOVE. We hear it at meetings, from sponsors, friends, relatives, but until we are confronted with an in-my-face crisis, we cannot assume to know what someone else is going through. When it comes to...

NCAM – Day 30

There is a better way of living. And it begins with the First Step. I pray you have the courage to stand up and take that step. It begins with you. Have you come to the place where you are ready to admit you are powerless? Besides finding physical nourishment, there...

NCAM-Day 29

Remember yesterday’s post? Well, I’m here to tell you after years of accepting blame, shame, and guilt the untrue negative message we tell ourselves won’t go away in one day. What will help us move forward is being involved in 12-Step support groups,...

Day 28 National Codependency Awareness Month

As we near the end of this year’s National Codependency Awareness Month, I know God has my back. No more guilt. No more blame. And no more shame. He is showing me how to believe in me. Now that’s the kind of Power only He can give. Yahoo! Thanks to my...

NCAM – Day 27

I cannot cure my own co-addiction, but I am determined to challenge my enabling behaviors. And that my friends, begins with Step One. I really do admit I am powerless over others. And when I don’t work my program-my life is unmanageable. Thanks to this new...