Or is it?

In Al-Anon, we hear the slogan, “Detach with Love.” Detaching with Love means to love ourselves.

Detachment has nothing to do with the person I think I can cure, change, and control. Detachment is about me.

About restoring my Dignity with a capital D.

About embracing my own respectability – poise – grace – honor.

These are my God-given DNA gifts.

“One’s dignity may be assaulted, vandalized, and cruelly mocked, but it can never be taken away unless it is surrendered.” – Michael J. Fox