Domestic Violence is a pattern of abusive and coercive behaviors, including physical, sexual and psychological attacks, as well as economic coercion, that adults and adolescents use against their intimate partners to gain control.
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Why Victims Stay:
Economic dependence
Fear of greater danger w/leaving
Fear of losing custody
Lack of alternative housing
Lack of job skills
Social isolation
Fear of loneliness
Guilt of failed marriage
Belief that abuser will be charged by police
Feeling of helplessness
Lack of emotional support
Cultural/ Religious restraints
Love/Hope for behavior change
Survivors of domestic abuse often suffer from anxiety, insomnia, and PTSD symptoms such as panic attacks and disturbing flashbacks of the abuse. Counseling and support groups can help ease these symptoms …
Most importantly, stay safe, have a backup plan, a safe house for you and your children. Domestic Violence is not about shame, blame, or regrets. There is no shame when it comes to protecting yourself and those you love. Use your God-given Spiritual sense – be vigilant and wise.
The wise watch their steps and avoid evil; fools are headstrong and reckless (Proverbs 14:16 MSG).
